Over analyzing communication

I know I am not the only person out there who happens to do this. But I feel like I am. That no one else thinks the things I do, but sure enough a ton of people out there do.

I over analyze way too many things. Its like I can be having a simple conversation with someone (texting of course) and they say something, I automatically go through my head and I'm like, "What did they mean by that'?"Its a pretty horrible habit that I wish I could get rid of. Oh, but if only it were that simple. I do it with everyone, mostly only on Facebook and through texting.

Perfect example, with my boyfriend. We text all the time, have you herd teenagers don't know how to properly use a phone now-a-days. :p Back to what I was saying, we can be texting and he will say something and automatically a million different scenarios will go through my head, all down to the worse one to ever think of, does he even want to me with me? I know, we're in love why would you think something like that especially over a text message? I don't know, I just do. when we are together everything is perfect, more than perfect. But it always seems to be the text messages that get me. Its the Over Analyzer in me.

This is why I wish Cell Phones were never invented. Don't get me wrong they do work wonders for when you are trying to get a hold of someone or vice versa. But all of this smart phone stuff I could totally do without. Even the texting I could do without. Same way about computers (especially Facebook!) I wish they weren't a part of every day life. I feel as if its just ruined America. Sure you are probably sitting there saying well you know if  we didnt have computers or Internet you wouldn't be writing this blog right now, and yeah I get that. But everything was much better when things like this didn't exist.

I wish we could honestly go back to the time where to have a conversation with someone you had to call them, sure on a cell phone if needed. But you didn't have the option to text them, email them, facebook them, use twitter or whatever it is you may be using to get a hold of someone. I feel like too many people, like me, look into things when its written down. Id rather be able to hear a tone in someones voice than to read what they say and sit here and have to guess if they are happy, angry, sad, mad, etc.

I wouldn't mind going back to a simpler time. I feel like its necessary that everyone should cut back on the amount of Facebooking, Twittering IMing, Emailing, and texting we all do. Maybe then everything would be a little less chaotic in this world. Yet again, maybe I'm wrong and I don't know what I'm talking about.

Just a girl with an opinion no one will listen to.

Good night, sleep tight. Don't let the bed bugs bite.